My thoughts about internet and love.

Okay, here's another thought.. This writing is really easy!

I have been seeing articles here and there that put a label on love. For example, if your lover does this.. break up with him. If your lover does that, then you need to have a talk.

I am going to sound like a B I T C H when I say this but... Articles that talk about love need to be burned.

No one. NO ONE has the picture perfect relationship that the movies, the books, and the magazines, seem to talk about. Yes, there are couples who are blessed to live their life a certain way. But I feel that those kind of articles are shaming couples. I mean what happened to BE YOURSELF. And no one else is the judge of your relationship. Just because you read an article about someone being cheated on, does NOT mean you are being cheated on. Just because some article claims that your sex life is dull, does NOT mean your sex life is dull. Just because some freaking article claims that you need to change up your life, DOES NOT MEAN YOU DO IT! The people who write those articles really sound like freaking know it alls and it pisses me off because.. Those people don't know you. Those people don't know your significant other! Articles may claim that you and your partner act a specific way and that may seem like the love is fading. WELL guess what? You and your partner are probably just really comfortable with each other! So do not rely on some bullshit articles. See, the human brain is really easy to be manipulated. Like I said.. Social media and the internet are having a lot of power on us since the last 10 years, more so in the last 5 years. Which is really sad! People should NOT believe everything they read. "Your lover may seem tired, and lonely, and upset. That means he/she/xe/they does/do not love you anymore." Yeah, well guess what? Maybe your partner just had a really bad day. In fact, if your partner is the kind who you KNOW will never leave you, then.. Why base your worries on some article that claims that youre gonna be miserable with them? Cuz you are not!

I recently read a few articles that claimed "If you don't get so excited when you talk to them anymore, you don't love them. The spark is simply not there" No, that is just bullshit. In fact, I LOVE my man. More than anything! We just became more comfortable with each other to the point where talking to each other is basically second nature. Its basically becoming more natural, and honestly, love is more complicated than rainbows and butterflies. It does not mean cloud nine all the time. Talking to my man is second nature to me now. Even if its about nothing, it would still feel weird to just not say anything to him. Because he's my love. He's my best friend. He is the only one who knows all of me. He knows when I'm pissed, (sometimes, hehe sorry honey if you see this <3), he knows when I am sad, he KNOWS what makes me happy.

So basing your love and your partner's love on some article is just stupid because.. That means you have a lot more to work out than just your relationship. And that is the cold, hard, brutal truth. Call me a bitch, and get mad at me. But if you truly felt secure in your relationship you would not feel the need to compare your love life as to a story in a magazine.